TL;DR
- New Mexico judge grilled gay asylum seeker for hours.
- Questions raised about bias in LGBTQ+ asylum cases.
- Judge’s approach reflects systemic issues in immigration.
- Asylum seekers face unique challenges in court.
- Concerns over treatment of LGBTQ+ individuals in detention.
In a shocking display of insensitivity and bias, a New Mexico immigration judge has come under fire for his outrageous questioning of a gay Iranian asylum seeker. This jaw-dropping incident, which unfolded over nearly three hours, has left advocates and attorneys alarmed about the treatment of LGBTQ+ individuals seeking refuge in the U.S. under the Trump administration.
Audio obtained by The Advocate reveals Judge Samuel Williams, a recent appointee to the immigration bench, pressing the asylum seeker about his same-sex relationship in a manner that many have deemed inappropriate and intrusive. The Iranian man, who fled his country fearing execution due to his sexual orientation, was subjected to a barrage of personal questions that seemed more suited for a reality TV show than a serious legal proceeding.

“And you are currently married. Is that your spouse’s name?” Williams inquired, referring to the man’s wife, whom he married 14 years ago. But the judge didn’t stop there. He went on to ask, “Y’all all sleep in the same room?”—a question that left many shaking their heads in disbelief. The man had already explained the precarious balance he maintained in Iran, where revealing his sexual orientation could lead to dire consequences, including arrest or death.
Rebekah Wolf, the attorney representing the asylum seeker, described the case as a “textbook” asylum claim. Yet, the judge’s persistent questioning about the applicant’s sexual orientation and relationship dynamics raised serious concerns about how LGBTQ+ asylum claims are evaluated in the current political climate. Wolf pointed out that the judge’s line of questioning reflects a misunderstanding of the realities faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in countries where being gay is criminalized.
Throughout the hearing, the judge seemed fixated on obtaining evidence of the applicant’s sexual orientation, asking, “You never told anybody else that you were gay?” The man, through an interpreter, explained that secrecy was not a choice but a necessity for survival. He had been detained by Iranian authorities after being discovered with his partner and had faced physical abuse for his sexual orientation.
Wolf emphasized that the judge’s expectations for proof of sexual orientation were not only unrealistic but also dangerous. “These are almost yes or no questions… I just want to know… so I can check the box to say that your case at least smells like it meets the elements for asylum,” Williams stated, highlighting a troubling trend where LGBTQ+ asylum seekers are subjected to a different standard than their heterosexual counterparts.
This disturbing incident is not an isolated case. Advocates have noted a pattern of biased questioning directed at LGBTQ+ asylum seekers, with judges often demanding detailed accounts of their identities and experiences that differ significantly from other types of claims. Vanessa Dojaquez-Torres of the American Immigration Lawyers Association remarked, “It does seem like [judges] are exhibiting some type of bias in these cases.” Such bias can have devastating impacts on the lives of those seeking safety and refuge.
As the Trump administration continues to implement policies that jeopardize the safety of LGBTQ+ individuals, the scrutiny faced by asylum seekers highlights the urgent need for reform within the immigration system. Reports indicate that LGBTQ+ individuals in U.S. immigration detention face alarming rates of violence and discrimination, with many subjected to solitary confinement and denied adequate medical care.
In the face of these challenges, advocates are calling for greater accountability and oversight of immigration judges, emphasizing that the current system fails to protect the most vulnerable among us. As the fight for LGBTQ+ rights continues, the experiences of asylum seekers serve as a stark reminder of the work that still lies ahead.