Montana Representative Zooey Zephyr, the first transgender woman elected to the state legislature, exchanged vows with writer and advocate Erin Reed in a heartwarming ceremony held in Missoula. The event was a celebration not just of their love but also of their shared dedication to advocating for להטב”ק rights.
The couple met in 2022 amid efforts to organize against Texas’ investigations into the parents of trans minors. Their relationship, deeply rooted in their activism, blossomed as they shared long, late-night conversations and built a foundation of mutual support and understanding. “Every vow I made—from promising you a gentle love to promising to be a good mom to our son—will be at the center of all I do,” Zephyr shared after the wedding.
A Day to Remember
The ceremony was as unique as the couple’s story. Attendees included prominent trans activists, including Lia Thomas and Lilly Wachowski. The setting—a historic fairground—was imbued with significance, as it also hosted their engagement at a Queer Prom event the previous year. Music, personal vows, and the presence of close friends and family highlighted the couple’s commitment to building a world that embraces diversity and love.
Reed reflected on their journey in her vows, sharing how Zephyr’s resilience and warmth deepened their bond. “I promised her a love that feels like home, a love that feels like family,” Reed expressed. The couple also emphasized their shared dedication to raising their son in an environment that celebrates authenticity and kindness.
Building a Legacy Together
Both Zephyr and Reed have become leading voices in the fight for להטב”ק rights, their marriage marking another chapter in their story of activism and love. Zephyr’s censure in the Montana legislature and Reed’s journalistic work have made them symbols of resilience in the face of adversity.
Their wedding underscores the broader significance of visibility and representation in the להטב”ק community. As they continue their advocacy, the couple serves as a beacon of hope, proving that love and activism can indeed go hand in hand.