A year has passed since the untimely departure of Paul O’Grady, the beloved comedian and drag legend known as Lily Savage, who left us after a sudden cardiac arrhythmia. His husband, André Portasio, opens up about the tragic day, sharing details of their final moments together, emphasizing the profound loss felt by the UK’s queer community and beyond.
The Final Hours
Describing an ordinary day turned tragic, Portasio recalls how O’Grady, fresh from a tour, had an aura of radiance that morning, despite their routine life in Kent. The couple enjoyed simple pleasures like walking their dogs and settling down to watch the news, unaware of the heartbreak that would unfold. Portasio’s recount of the sudden incident, his attempts at resuscitation, and the poignant moment their dog Arfur tried to wake O’Grady, paints a vivid picture of love and desperation.
Legacy and Moving Forward
In the aftermath, Portasio seeks solace far from the reminders of that fateful day, in New Zealand. His determination to carry on O’Grady’s work and to face the future without his partner is a testament to their shared dedication to advocacy and the LGBTQ+ community. The legacy of Paul O’Grady, not just as an entertainer but as a beacon for love and acceptance, continues to resonate, evidenced by the upcoming TV series showcasing his adventures and his indelible impact as Lily Savage.