Morgan Rees, a 30-year-old from Merthyr Tydfil in south Wales, now living in London, brings a vivid personal account to the often misunderstood narrative of bisexuality. His life story sheds light on the complex identity struggles faced by bisexual individuals. Morgan identifies as bisexual and queer, embracing his attraction towards people of all genders, including men, women, trans, and non-binary individuals.
Facing Stigma and Misconceptions
Rees’ journey hasn’t been without challenges. He recalls a particularly striking incident on a first date where his date reacted negatively upon learning about his bisexuality. This experience highlights a broader issue: bisexual people often confront labels of being greedy, promiscuous, or untrustworthy. Morgan himself has faced accusations of being ‘gaslit’ by partners, both straight and gay, who doubted the legitimacy of his sexual orientation.
Bisexual Erasure: A Persistent Issue
Morgan points out a common phenomenon known as ‘bi-erasure’. He explains that being in a same-sex relationship often leads to him being mislabeled as gay. This misidentification, according to Morgan, dismisses his true bisexual identity. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing and respecting bisexuality as a legitimate and distinct orientation.
Advocating for Visibility and Understanding
Beyond his personal experiences, Morgan is actively involved in enhancing bisexual visibility. He co-hosts the podcast ‘Chatting With Cherubs’ and uses his platform at comedy clubs to address a predominantly straight audience about the nuances of bisexuality. His upcoming UK tour, ‘Turning Thirsty’, is not just a showcase of his talents but also a fundraising initiative for LGBTQ+ charities.
Embracing Diversity and Love
Rees passionately talks about his attraction to the spirit, energy, and kindness of people, transcending physical appearance. However, he also shares the unjust perception of bisexuality as a sign of promiscuity and untrustworthiness, reflecting deep-seated stereotypes within society. For Morgan, bisexuality is not a transient phase but his ‘final destination’, a testament to his self-acceptance and the rich diversity of human attraction.
