TL;DR
- Fran Drescher attends events with her gay ex-husband.
- She calls him her life partner and best friend.
- Drescher jokes about him being a ‘cockblock.’
- She officiated same-sex weddings before marriage equality.
- Drescher enjoys single life without compromise.
Fran Drescher, the iconic star of The Nanny, is not just a beloved actress; she’s also redefining what it means to maintain a close relationship with an ex. Recently, she brought her gay ex-husband, Peter Marc Jacobson, to a star-studded event, and let’s just say, their dynamic is anything but typical. “He’s my gay ex-husband. He’s my best friend and he’s always around,” she quipped during an interview, proving that love can take many forms.
At the 2026 New York City Ballet Spring Gala, the duo turned heads as they mingled with the elite. Fran, 68, and Peter, also 68, have a history that dates back to their marriage of 21 years, and their bond remains unbreakable. “But we try and make sure that he’s not too much of a cockblock,” she joked, highlighting the playful nature of their relationship.
Traveling together is a norm for this dynamic duo. Whether it’s a glamorous gala or a laid-back vacation in Germany, Fran insists on having Peter by her side. “I take him to everything, and I don’t really care. I have a gay ex-husband — live with it!” she declared, showcasing her unapologetic attitude towards their unique partnership. “Who can compete with that?” she added, emphasizing the depth of their connection.
While some might think having an ex-husband around could scare off potential suitors, Fran is unfazed. “That might have been, but for the most part, everybody knows who he is,” she said, making it clear that their friendship is well understood by those around them. In fact, she refers to him as her “life partner” and “work partner,” proving that their relationship transcends traditional labels.
Fran has been open about her journey since their divorce, which came after Peter’s coming out in 1999. After their split, she briefly married Dr. Shiva Ayyadurai, but that union ended in 2016. Now, she embraces her single life, stating, “Selfishly, I don’t want to compromise. That’s a lot of what it is when you’re with somebody… but the more you live on your own, the less you want to do that, and the less you need it if you happen to have a gay ex-husband.” Talk about a refreshing take on relationships!
Fran has also been a vocal supporter of LGBTQ rights, even officiating same-sex weddings before marriage equality was legalized. Back in 2012, she helped a lucky couple tie the knot in a contest, proving that her heart has always been in the right place when it comes to love.
So, whether she’s dazzling at a gala or enjoying a casual trip with her gay ex-husband, Fran Drescher continues to shine as a beacon of love and friendship in the LGBTQ community. Who needs a traditional relationship when you have a fabulous ex-husband like Peter Marc Jacobson? Cheers to their enduring bond!