TL;DR
- Frankie Grande worries about Zach and Bryce’s bromance on Love Island.
- He reflects on the mental health impact of being shipped on reality TV.
- Grande advocates for better LGBTQ+ representation in reality shows.
- He hopes Zach and Bryce embrace their bisexuality post-show.
- The lack of gay representation in Love Island is concerning.
When it comes to reality TV, nothing stirs the pot quite like a juicy bromance. And no one knows this better than Frankie Grande, the gay Big Brother alum who’s seen it all. Grande has some serious concerns about the current bromance brewing between Zach and Bryce on Love Island, and he’s not holding back.
As the eighth season of Love Island USA takes social media by storm, it’s the homoerotic antics of Zach and Bryce that have fans buzzing. From their infamous “girth check” to their playful banter, these two have become the talk of the town. But for Grande, who has his own history of being shipped on reality TV, it’s a double-edged sword. “First of all, I did it first,” he quips, referencing his own showmance with Zach Rance on Big Brother 16.

Grande’s experience was not all sunshine and rainbows. He recalls how the intense scrutiny from viewers took a toll on his mental health. “The world perceiving us as a couple…actually was really detrimental to my mental health. And so I hope it doesn’t go that way for them,” he shares, clearly concerned about how Zach and Bryce will handle the pressure once they leave the island.
His worries don’t stop there. Grande hopes that when Zach and Bryce return to reality, they won’t fall into the trap of homophobia. “Like, that would make me so fucking sad. If they’re like, no, man, that’s gross, bro. Like, we’re just dudes, man. Like, that’s how bros are. Like, I will kill everyone,” he states passionately. He wants nothing more than for these two bisexual men to explore their feelings for each other without fear or stigma.
It’s a sad reality that Love Island, which follows a heterosexual pairing model, hasn’t made much progress in LGBTQ+ representation since Grande first appeared on reality TV. He points out that many contestants later come out as LGBTQ+, but the show’s producers still shy away from casting openly queer contestants. Grande laments, “When this is the only thing that is happening on television that is potentially love between two men, everything rides on it. It’s like everyone is talking about these two fucking men because it’s all that we have.”
He raises a valid question: why can’t we have a more inclusive Love Island? “Why are there not gay men on Love Island? Like, why can’t we have also gay men, and straight people, and… like everyone island?” Grande argues for a more diverse cast that reflects the real world.
As the conversation around LGBTQ+ representation continues to evolve, Grande’s insights remind us that we still have a long way to go. His memoir, Supergay!, dives deeper into his queer journey in the limelight, and it’s available now for those who want to learn more about his experiences. In a world where representation matters, let’s hope Zach and Bryce can navigate their Love Island journey with authenticity and pride.