On Grindr, a social media app popular among LGBT users, an exchange between two men recently went viral. The exchange involved a young man named Matt and an older gentleman, who shared some wise advice that resonated with many. Matt shared the exchange on Twitter, where it quickly gained attention and praise.
The older man, who began the conversation by stating that he was not flirting with Matt, proceeded to offer some poignant words of wisdom. He shared a story of his youth, reminiscing about driving around southern California with no roof or doors in a Jeep, wearing nothing but sneakers and short shorts. He even admitted to hustling a bit in his younger years.
However, the real takeaway from his message was a simple but powerful statement: “Enjoy life. It goes by too quickly.” His words struck a chord with many social media users, who found his message to be both heartwarming and meaningful.
Many Twitter users responded to the exchange, with some suggesting that Matt meet with the older man for brunch once a month to hear more of his stories. Others suggested that the older man share photos so that everyone could appreciate his experiences.
The exchange is a rare and heartwarming moment on Grindr, which is often associated with casual hookups rather than deep and meaningful connections. The fact that an older gay man was able to impart some wisdom to a younger man on the app is a reminder that even in unexpected places, we can find moments of genuine human connection.
This story is especially poignant given the challenges that many LGBT people have faced over the years, including discrimination, social stigma, and the devastating effects of the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s. The fact that the older man has likely lost many friends and lovers to the disease adds another layer of depth to his message of enjoying life while we can.
In a world where social media can often feel like a toxic and divisive place, this exchange is a refreshing reminder of the power of human kindness and empathy, and the ways in which technology can be used to foster meaningful connections between people.