Kenny Screven, a popular TikTok influencer, and his fiancé Rob have candidly shared their experiences as an interracial LGBTQ+ couple. Their journey has been one of both love and challenges, particularly in navigating the prejudices that come from their diverse appearances and expressions of queerness. Screven noted that discrimination varies depending on how he presents himself; more feminine presentation often leads to more acceptance of their relationship, whereas without makeup, assumptions about their bond differ.
Screven remarked on the complexity of societal reactions to their relationship. He pointed out that some people wholeheartedly support them, embracing the notion that “love has no color,” while others perceive their relationship through a fetishistic lens or believe he should date within his own race. This dichotomy is even more pronounced within the LGBTQ+ community, where Screven faces additional sexualization for being Black and feminine-presenting.
Despite these societal pressures, Rob has been a steadfast partner who embraces every aspect of Screven’s identity. However, this acceptance doesn’t shield them from the harsh criticisms of social media, where Screven’s femininity often becomes a target for mean-spirited attacks. He highlights the pervasive belief that gay, Black, feminine men are undeserving of love, a sentiment that adds to the burden of their public life.
Rob, who fits more comfortably into societal expectations and can “pass” as straight, navigates the world differently. This dynamic sometimes heightens Screven’s concerns for their safety, especially when they are out in public. Nonetheless, Screven remains proud of his identity and continues to advocate for greater acceptance and understanding of LGBTQ+ interracial couples.