In Fiji, same-sex marriage is illegal, and it’s a contentious issue among LGBTQ+ activists. While some argue that their time is better spent combating more general discrimination and violence against the community, others push for marriage equality, citing the concrete benefits it would bring, such as family health insurance and inheritance rights.
For LGBTQ+ individuals like Kaushik, who got married in New Zealand, not being able to marry legally in Fiji means facing discrimination in other areas of life. For instance, same-sex couples are not recognized as family members and, therefore, do not have the legal right to make decisions about their partner’s medical treatment.
While marriage equality is important for many members of the LGBTQ+ community in Fiji, others say that addressing the high rates of violence against LGBTQ+ Fijians should remain the primary focus. Members of the LGBTQ+ community do not feel that the police or judiciary will help them get justice if they become the victim of a crime.
Statistics on violence against the LGBTQ+ community are hard to come by since the government does not collect them, and many people choose not to report cases due to fear of discrimination and stigma. Despite these challenges, some activists argue that ignoring marriage equality in favor of campaigning for safety is selective activism.
In Fiji, there is doubt over whether the wider community is ready to legalize gay marriage, and the former prime minister has made it clear that he opposes it. However, some say that having conversations about it and promoting acceptance is crucial for progress.
In conclusion, the fight for marriage equality in Fiji is dividing LGBTQ+ activists, with some prioritizing safety and security, and others pushing for concrete benefits and traditional celebrations. While marriage equality is an important issue, addressing the high rates of violence against the LGBTQ+ community and promoting acceptance are equally important for progress in Fiji.