TL;DR
- Marriage equality marks 11 years since Obergefell v. Hodges.
- Growing conservative efforts threaten LGBTQ+ rights.
- Jim Obergefell warns of potential rollbacks.
- Public support for marriage equality shows signs of decline.
- The fight for love and recognition continues.
It’s been 11 glorious years since the U.S. Supreme Court made history with its landmark ruling in Obergefell v. Hodges, granting same-sex couples the right to marry. But don’t pop the champagne just yet—conservative forces are revving up their engines to roll back the hard-fought rights we’ve gained. Can you believe it?
On June 26, 2023, supporters gathered in front of the U.S. Supreme Court, waving pride flags and celebrating the anniversary of both the Obergefell decision and the United States v. Windsor ruling. These decisions have woven marriage equality into the very fabric of American life, yet opponents still see it as unfinished business. What a world!

Jim Obergefell, the man behind the name, expressed his disbelief at the current climate. “I really didn’t think 11 years later we would have reason to fear that marriage would be lost,” he said, reflecting on the precarious state of LGBTQ+ rights today. It’s a stark reminder that while we’ve made strides, the fight is far from over.
The anniversary comes on the heels of a failed attempt by Kim Davis, the former Kentucky clerk who infamously refused to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples, to overturn the ruling. The Supreme Court, however, declined to engage with her appeal, leaving marriage equality intact—for now.
Human Rights Campaign President Kelley Robinson emphasized the dual nature of this anniversary: a celebration of love and a call to action. “We are living through a coordinated, well-funded campaign to roll back our rights,” she stated. “So today we do two things at once: we celebrate the joy and dignity of marriage equality, and we recommit to protecting it.” Amen to that!
According to the Williams Institute, approximately 823,000 same-sex couples are now legally married in the U.S. That’s more than double the number in 2015. These couples are raising around 299,000 kids under 18. Yet, despite this progress, public support for marriage equality is showing signs of strain, particularly among Republicans. Can we get a collective eye-roll?
As we reflect on this monumental anniversary, it’s essential to remember the pioneers who fought for our rights. The first same-sex marriage in the U.S. took place in Massachusetts back in 2004, paving the way for the Obergefell decision. Those early couples knew they were fighting for more than just their love—they were fighting for recognition, dignity, and the right to exist openly.
Today, the stakes feel higher than ever. As Obergefell poignantly put it, “I hope they look back and realize that the fight John and I started wasn’t caused or motivated by anything other than love and the desire to exist.” And that’s a fight we must continue to champion.
So, as we raise our glasses to 11 years of marriage equality, let’s also gird ourselves for the battles ahead. Love is not just a celebration; it’s an act of defiance. Let’s make sure our voices are heard, now and always!