TL;DR
- Gabby Windey and Reneé Rapp got explicit about lesbian sex on Windey’s podcast.
- They covered scissoring, strap-ons, and dildo preferences with zero shame.
- Windey admitted her wife isn’t into scissoring, but she loves it.
- Rapp declared strap-ons a “necessity” and showed off her colorful dildo collection.
- Their banter adds much-needed visibility to queer women’s sex lives.
Scissoring, Straps & Sapphic Realness
When reality TV firecracker Gabby Windey and queer pop darling Reneé Rapp sit down for a chat, you know it’s not going to be about skincare routines or brunch spots. Nope—these two dove straight into the lesbian deep end, talking scissoring and strap-ons like they were gossiping about last season’s finale.
Windey, who famously traded in The Bachelor roses for a queer love story with comedian Robby Hoffman, wasted no time addressing the most annoying question she gets: “Do you feel gay enough?” Her response? “I’m fully having sex with a girl, what do you mean? I’m pretty gay.” Case closed, hetero doubters.
Rapp, never one to miss the chance for a punchline, backed her up: “You’re like, I’m literally eating box. You’re questioning whether I’m gay enough? This sucks.” The audience? Screaming.
Scissor Sisters Speak
Windey then cracked open one of her favorite sapphic subjects: scissoring. “Literally. Like I’m scissoring, fully,” she declared. “I earned it, it’s not just a front, I married it.” Rapp wasn’t shy either: “This is real. We’re real-life scissoring in this bitch.”
Windey admitted Hoffman isn’t a fan of the move, but she’s always begging to scissor. Rapp, on the other hand, is a ride-or-die. “Of course, it’s so fun,” she said, defending the act. “Like wait, not us scissoring, it’s kind of cute.” Windey summed it up best: “It feels animalistic, it feels primal. It just feels like sex.”
Strapping Up
If you thought they’d stop there—nope. Windey shifted gears into strap-on territory, asking Rapp if she’s into it. Rapp didn’t hesitate: “Yes, it’s a necessity, dick me down.”
She confessed her girlfriend Towa Bird usually takes the top spot, while Rapp claims she’s more “switch in theory” than in practice. Her favorite toys? Colorful, playful dildos. “It’s silicone and it’s purple and pink. Like this shit is fun. This is games. We need to be sucking strap in the club more.”
Windey countered that she and Hoffman prefer flesh-toned, hyper-realistic models. “We’ve invested so much money… she calls me Goldicocks.” Rapp? Immediately horrified by the mention of realistic testicles. “That one has to go. That scares the shit out of me.”
Why This Matters for the Queer Community
Sure, it’s hilarious and juicy, but here’s the real tea: conversations like this matter. For decades, lesbian sex was erased, joked about, or fetishized for straight men. Two openly queer women, in love with women, openly laughing and dissecting scissoring and strap-ons? That’s not just entertainment—it’s normalization.
For young queer women who’ve been told their sex isn’t “real sex,” this kind of visibility validates their intimacy as worthy, fun, and—yes—sexy. When Windey says scissoring is primal and Rapp says strap-ons are a necessity, they’re doing more than cracking jokes: they’re tearing down shame.
It’s raw, it’s cheeky, it’s camp—and it’s exactly the kind of unapologetic queer storytelling the world needs more of.