TL;DR
- Sophia Bush shares her experience as a ‘bonus mum’.
- She emphasizes the importance of supporting mothers.
- Bush discusses her relationship with Ashlyn Harris.
- The couple’s journey began after Harris’ divorce.
- Bush believes mothers should lead the way.
In a world where love knows no bounds, Sophia Bush is stepping into her role as a “bonus mum” with grace and heart. The Chicago PD star is dating former football player Ashlyn Harris, and she’s not just playing the girlfriend role; she’s embracing motherhood in a whole new way. With Harris having adopted two children, Sloane and Ocean, with her ex-wife Ali Krieger, Bush is all about supporting her partner and the kids.
During an appearance on TODAY with Jenna & Sheinelle, Bush opened up about her life as a bonus mum, especially as the US celebrated Mother’s Day. “If I’ve learned anything from her and from all of the amazing mums in my life, including my own, I think we’re really in a moment when I can say women need more support, more resources, paid leave would be great… anyone in charge,” she shared, highlighting the crucial need for systemic support for mothers everywhere.

But it’s not just about the kids; it’s about giving Harris the pampering she deserves. Bush revealed, “I learned that the best thing I can do for her is give her a moment, just to herself, so I booked her a very long massage. The kids coloured really sweet photos for her.” Now that’s what we call a supportive partner!
Bush, who came out as queer in April 2024, has a unique perspective on motherhood. She noted, “I think for me, all of the ways I watch women mother, whether it’s my best friend becoming a mum and me being godmother to her kids, falling in love with a mother and being a part of a family… What you really get to see is really the myriad ways that women show up for each other, that they show up for their communities, that we show up for our kids and other people’s, each other’s, and our families and extended families, our communities.” Talk about a powerful message!

As she continues to navigate her role, Bush is inspired by the resilience of women everywhere. “As stressful as things seem right now, I’m watching so many women organize, activate, make sure their schools have the resources that they need, show up at the school in the neighborhood one over,” she said, showcasing the strength of community.
In her heartfelt conclusion, Bush declared, “Whether it’s in the four walls of my home or in the world, I think mums A) will save us and B) should literally be in charge of everything. If we were in charge of everything, things would be fixed by lunch. I know this to be true in my bones.” Now that’s a sentiment we can all get behind!

Sophia Bush is proving that love, support, and community are the keys to a happy family. Here’s to more bonus mums and the incredible women who uplift each other every day!