In a recent appearance on The Graham Norton Show, national icon Miriam Margoyles not only discussed her new book but also expressed her love and support for the transgender community. Despite criticism from some quarters that discussing trans issues should be avoided, Margoyles passionately asserted, “f**k that” and went on to share a transformative conversation she had with Australian actor Zoe Terakes, known for being the first openly trans actor cast in a significant role in the Marvel Cinematic Universe.
Margoyles, known for her strong attachment to grammar, had initially struggled with the use of gender-neutral pronouns like ‘they/them.’ However, her conversation with Terakes changed her perspective. Terakes posed a thought-provoking question, asking Margoyles, “What does it matter to you? If you can make somebody happy by calling them they instead of he or she, why not do it?” Margoyles realized that prioritizing someone’s happiness and sense of self over rigid grammar rules was paramount, stating, “It doesn’t matter about grammar! If you can make someone happy and give them a sense of themselves, then do it!”
This revelation underscores the importance of recognizing and respecting gender identities and pronouns, emphasizing the positive impact it can have on individuals within the LGBTQ community.
A Milestone in Miriam Margoyles’ Relationship
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In addition to her insights on gender-neutral pronouns, Miriam Margoyles opened up about a significant milestone in her long-term partnership with Heather Sutherland. The couple first met in the 1960s while working on a BBC radio drama and has maintained a lasting relationship over the years. Notably, they had chosen to live apart in the past, believing it allowed them to lead fulfilling lives without sacrificing their individuality.
However, Margoyles recently shared a change of heart regarding their living arrangements. She expressed her desire for the couple to live together, acknowledging that they are in the later stages of life and time is precious. Margoyles stated, “I really do want to live with her because we are old, and we haven’t got much time left. It is silly to live apart.” This decision reflects their commitment to making the most of their time together and highlights the enduring strength of their LGBTQ partnership.
These two facets of Miriam Margoyles’ life showcase her evolving perspectives on love, identity, and the importance of embracing change, making her an influential voice within the LGBTQ community.