Valentine’s Day is upon us, and it’s time to show your love to your sweetheart. For those in the LGBTQ+ community, it’s a chance to proudly celebrate love and affection, even if it is a commercial holiday. Whether you prefer big flashy gifts or a more subtle approach, this gift guide has something for everyone.
A Sensual Candle Experience
The Slow Burn candle from Boy Smells, a queer-owned fragrance brand, is a perfect choice for those looking to set the mood. This coconut and beeswax blend features romantic scents of incense, black pepper, elemi, ginger zest, labdanum, cedarwood, and vanilla, making for a truly sultry experience.
Decolonize Your Diet with a Cookbook
For the foodie in your life, “Decolonize Your Diet” by Luz Calvo and Catriona Rueda Esquibel is a must-have. This cookbook not only redefines traditional Mexican cuisine but also includes important history and beautiful images, making it a unique and meaningful gift.

Comfortable Lingerie for a Cozy Night In
TomboyX’s adjustable bralette is the perfect gift for a cozy night in. Made of soft cotton and spandex, this bralette is comfortable and supportive, allowing your cutie to feel their best self.

Socks with a Purpose
The cotton socks from Conscious Step are not only stylish but also support a good cause. Made of organic cotton and available in an array of lovely shades, each pair supports The Trevor Project, providing resources and a safe space for young LGBTQ+ individuals.
A Groundbreaking Novel
For the reader in your life, “Stone Butch Blues” by Leslie Feinberg is a must-read. This thought-provoking and powerful novel about the butch and trans experience is just as relevant today as it was when it was first published in 1993.
Pronoun-Affirming Pin
This elegant and helpful pronoun pin is a popular and highly rated item on Amazon. Available with a rubber back or a magnetic back, this pin is the perfect way to show support for your loved one’s identity.
The Butt Tingler
The Vibrating Butt Plug 3.5 Inch, also known as the “Butt Tingler” from Lovehony, is a classic example of a standard vibrating butt plug. Made from silicone and measuring 3.5 inches in length, it’s an ideal option for beginners.