The journey to self-discovery and acceptance can be long and winding, particularly for LGBTQ+ individuals. According to a recent Gallup report, while a majority of LGBTQ+ adults understand their sexual orientation or gender identity by their teenage years, a significant portion never disclose this aspect of their identity to anyone.
The report highlights that 48 percent of respondents were aware of their identity by age 14, and 72 percent by age 18. Despite this early self-awareness, many choose to keep their truth hidden. By age 22, 57 percent had come out to friends and family, and this figure rises to 71 percent by age 30. However, a notable 18 percent of LGBTQ+ adults have never come out, including 5 percent of gay or lesbian individuals and nearly 23 percent of bisexual adults.
This reluctance to come out is not necessarily rooted in self-doubt but often in societal reactions and potential repercussions. The report underscores that despite evolving societal attitudes towards LGBTQ+ individuals and increased acceptance, the timing of personal disclosures remains deeply influenced by external factors.
Harassment and discrimination remain significant barriers. Gay and lesbian individuals are particularly vulnerable, with 24 percent reporting increased harassment in recent years compared to 12 percent of bisexual individuals. Overall, one in four LGBTQ+ adults experienced poor treatment or harassment, with 5 percent facing it frequently and 19 percent occasionally.
The findings indicate that societal progress does not equate to personal safety or acceptance. The enduring stigma and risk of discrimination play a crucial role in the decision to remain closeted for many LGBTQ+ individuals.
